明けましておめでとう御座います

和歌山市　和歌浦口バス停前

畠中整骨院院長　畠中健でございます

本年もどうぞよろしくお願い申し上げます。

本日水曜日は、午前中で最終受付は12時ですが下記の理由にて12時に終わります

新年なので言及控えておりました

本年　１月３日に、和歌山の大病院から私の父に連絡あり、命が危ないので来てくださいと

父と私で急ぎで参りました

私が小さい頃、畠中整骨院受付でよく遊んでくれた方の命が危ないというお電話でした

父方の遠い親戚にあたります

その方の同居親族も体調悪く、その方のフォローその親戚の方が、いろいろ段取りしてから、自分で救急車呼んで大病院にいかれたようです

次の日、また、我々が親戚に会いにいこうと思ってましたが昼にあった日の夕方急変して、大病院からお電話頂き、すぐかけつけて、我々二人で、最後までついて看取りました

その昼、楽しく話しをして、今後の治療方針も

このようにお願いしますとその方と話してそうやなと本人さんの納得の上で、体調よくなれば、そのような根本治療行うと私とドクター、ナースさんが話しをして予定していたところでした

急遽入院するまでの体調を鑑みると、ドクター、看護師さんは、よくやって頂き、本当にありがとうございました

また、入院した親戚もよく我慢していたと私は思います

我々に負担かけないように心配かけないように、していたと思いますがもっと本質的な悩みを親戚から頂けたらよかったのになあと思います

しかし、その昼に親戚とお話しして、我々に伝えたいことを、全て伝えられました

そこが、救いだと重きます

おそらく覚悟を決められて入院されたと私は思います

次の日から、代わりの葬儀の段取り、同居親族の方をみていただいている方々に連絡とり、

私なりに父が心身疲れないようにいろいろ行ったつもりです

５日から仕事始めで私も時間に猶予ないので、

私の姉が、父のフォローをしてくれて、本日、告別式を13時に行います

そのため、12時には我々は当院を離れるのでご理解、ご協力のほどよろしくお願い申し上げます。

Happy New Year

Wakayama City, Wakaura-guchi Bus Stop

I am Takeshi Hatankenaka Director of Hatakenaka Orthopedic Clinic.

I look forward to your continued support this year.

I refrained from mentioning it earlier due to the New Year.

On January 3rd this year, my father received a call from a major hospital in Wakayama, urgently requesting his presence as his life was in danger.

My father and I rushed there immediately.

This person was someone who often played with me at the reception desk of Hatakenaka Orthopedic Clinic when I was little.

He is a distant relative on my father’s side.

His cohabiting relative was also unwell. After making various arrangements to support that person, he apparently called an ambulance himself and went to the major hospital.

The next day, we planned to visit our relative, but his condition deteriorated suddenly in the evening. The two of us stayed by his side until the end.

That afternoon, we had a pleasant conversation and discussed the future treatment plan.

We agreed on the approach, and I had planned to tell the doctor and nurses that once his condition improved, we would proceed with that fundamental treatment.

Considering his condition right up until his sudden hospitalization, the doctor and nurses did an excellent job. We are truly grateful.

I also think our hospitalized relative endured a great deal.

I believe they tried not to burden us or cause us worry, but I wish they could have shared their deeper concerns with us.

However, during that afternoon conversation, they conveyed everything they wanted to tell us.

I consider that a saving grace.

I believe they entered the hospital having made their peace.

From the next day onward, I made arrangements for the funeral, contacted those looking after our cohabiting relatives,

and did what I could to ensure my father wasn’t physically or mentally exhausted.

Since work starts on the 5th and I have no time to spare,

my sister is taking over caring for my father. The funeral service will be held today at 1:00 PM.

Therefore, we will be leaving the hospital by 12:00 PM. We kindly ask for your understanding and cooperation.